If You're Feeling Froggy Then... "Jump-Off"?

There have been a couple of occasions where I'll start talking to a dude, we'll really start to feel each other and make plans to meet again. Exciting! The possibility of SOMETHING NEW, right? Hell no.

Why, you ask? Well....(chuckles to self) these fools are already involved! Oh, no! Don't think that's the kicker...they LIVE with shorty-girl! I don't know if it's just me, but that's usually a bit of information that's included with regular conversations....usually.

Where'd the decency go?

AND what EXACTLY am I supposed to do with this new information?! Hmm, be chill, let it roll because, "I'm bout to leave her." So, you want me to stick around and fool around until you do?

Come on! Stop lying...Let's be for real here, ok? At first meeting, here come the compliments, pretty, classy, blah blah blah. If that's how you felt about me, how'd you think I was going to react?

A real woman knows that if there is a relationship to be had, the only women she should come second to are those related to you, BY BLOOD, understand? I've said this before, I can't speak for any other woman besides myself.

And MY-self is saying that I'm greedy, I don't like to share... So, NO we can't chill, kick it, or whatever else. Don't get mad, my thinking leads me to believe that IF we were to start something, you'd do the same thing to me (see Ginuwine - What's So Different?).

You just proved to me that you don't honor or RESPECT your current situation, why would you honor, let alone RESPECT "ours?" Relationships usually end with/because of the problems they began with. So if you begin with being dishonest, then....

Now, there are women out there who will let stuff like this go, and be cool with it. For the misleading, I'm sorry. But, you should never assume...besides do you really want that drama?

So guys (only those that apply), don't step into something new until both of your feet can be planted firmly.

Thanks...